Tuesday, October 26, 2010

conflict with my sister

It was January and mom and dad were away on holidays in Mexico. My grandparents were staying at my house with me to make sure everything was ok. I had wrote exams and then had planned to do something with friends for a little while that afternoon while my grandma was gone to town to check on their house and grandpa was away at the farm. I knew grandma wasn't going to be home til later that day because she was going to stop at the farm on her way home to see little man, Jared.

It was about 3 that afternoon and I got a text, it was my sister asking me where I was, she knew I wasn't home. She was asking all kinds of questions, where I was, who I was with, what I was doin, why I wasn't home. I had ignored her text because grandma knew who I was with and where I was and that I was going to make it up to Uncle Kurts for 5:30that evening. Not texting her back had caused some trouble, she started phoning and not answering it had made it even worse. I believe I had a fight with her earlier that day so this is why I was not answering her phone calls or texts. I finally answered the second call and it didn't go over well. She thought I hadn't talked to grandma, which I had and it was fine with her. My sister thought that I was lying and tried getting me into trouble, ha didn't happen!

It just was not a good two weeks for my sister and I, she thought I would be stressing out the grandparents. She was trying to be the mom that she wasn't. I always get along with my sister, just when mom and dad were away she was trying to watch out a little to much for me when she wasn't staying with me, she had no reason to be calling and texting me trying to find out what I was doing. The other sister had stuck up for me and things got worse! Everyting went downhill everything we could argue or fight about we did! My other sister had came out for the weekend, this was happening on a friday. We went to uncle Kurt's to have supper and visit them and Jared, we started talking about what was happening, he how ever told me not to worry about what she was trying to tell me because I was where I was suppose to be at the time I was suppose to be there and I was ok. A couple hours had passed and I had finished bathing Jared came back to where my phone was laying I had two missed calls and three missed texts, all from the sister. By this time I was annoyed and upset because I was fighting with the sister that I never fight with. We were always the closest and didn't fight much.
In the end after the two weeks were done we ended up being back to normal and things were good. The fight ended up just being minor.

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