Everything Happens For a Reason

Regrets are something that happens to everyone. Some people try to forget their past, others may be proud of their past. The past makes you who you are today. Some people don’t have regrets, but I bet that they wish they could go back and do something over… I know I sure have.

There is always something that is stopping a person from really living their life; let it be a bad break up, or friends not getting along. Somehow there is always something that is going wrong. Preventing that is hard that’s for sure. However, when you don’t care what people think of you or what is being said behind your back, life will be a bit easier. Being the person to get hurt really sucks. I was once told that EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, now I live by that motto.

Having a family, a boyfriend, and lots of friends is something everyone dreams of. But for someone with a bad past it is harder for all that to be perfect. Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to go back in time and change all that had happened? Maybe you’d change what you said to someone, or maybe you’d change how you reacted to something. But the crappy part is that you can’t change what happened already.

A time I would like to go back and change what I did was when I disobeyed my parent’s rules. I was in trouble for a very long time. But now that I think about it, I was not smart. And for what reason did I disobey them? Cause I was young and didn’t think about the consequences? Well now that I have grown up and thought about what I did, I am not proud. It’s easy to say that “it’s the past”. But not always is it so easy to shake off. There are times where I was sad that it had happened, and times where I didn’t really care. But it’s still always on my mind, how I got into trouble just because I was not thinking. Well now I am thinking better and clearer, and will not disobey my parents any more.

Overall, I look at what could happen that is good and bad out of the situation. Disobeying my parents is so not worth all the lectures and disappointment from them. I’ve definitely learned my lesson.